I never had a chance to respond so I'll add mine since Sarah bumped this up:
I would say others might see me as:
Traditional/Classic
Preppy
Dressy (this is what others seem to say about me and I don't think they necessarily mean this in a flattering way. I think because I tend to dress smart casual instead of casual/sloppy like most of the other SAHMs that I encounter).
I am currently trying to move from traditional classic to modern classic and give my look a more contemporary feel (though I have no aspirations to be trendy). I would also love to have more of a sophisticated/chic vibe but I feel that is virtually impossible with my stature/body type.