Thank you all so much for your sympathetic ears and empathy. It seems that back problems are unfortunately very common.
I do have scoliosis, same as my daughter, it is genetic predisposition. I have been suffering from lower back pain for years now. It never goes completely away, just goes from acute, immobilizing and quality of life affecting to a more tolerable one that hurts only when doing some movements like bending or when standing for too long. I never know what triggers the acute phase and I never know how long it will last - it is usually between few weeks and few months. When I am in acute phase like now I get depressed and desperate- and I will try anything and everything - pain killers, injections, physical therapy, chiropractor and osteopathic treatments, massages, exercises and stretches, creams, vitamins, supplements, cold and hot patches - you name it, I probably tried it. And then when I eventually get better, I never know what helped. I was just planning to have MRI but last few days I feel somewhat better - pain in my leg is gone and I can walk again. So will give it few more days.
And today is 4 weeks since my dental surgery and I finally managed to smile without discomfort. The cut was in front, just below my nose and every time I moved my lips to talk, smile or eat, I would feel it. I am pretty sure that is the main reason for my weight loss, so I am not going to worry about it any more.
Things are improving and I am very grateful for that. I have to work 3 more days and then I will have 2 weeks off - so looking forward to it.
Wishing you all restful and stress free holiday season and all the best in new year. And good health - that is the most important.