Great saga! Glad you are finding some.
Oh, woe. I used to wear loafers, when it was a bit ahead of the curve( or of the resurgence of loafers) , and it was part of my style. Then, foot and bunion issues crept in. Meaning, I have to size up gif that, but still have relatively narrow heels. So loafers won’t stay on. But I know this AFTER following version of your pathway trying different leathers, styles, all sorts of inserts. Because like Angie, I used to fit loafers just a tad smaller, or picked the brand that “ just” fit, and used soft leathers.
Finally I have seen the light. No more loafers. Ankle - strap flats work. T strap. Now am trying to explore Mary Jane’s.
These are not essential daily, but is the only way I can try to have an alternative sneakers. And certainly for dressy.