Hi, Dana. You have a lovely figure
I'm sticking with one of my previous guesses: your shoulders are not broad/large, they just have a well defined shape. I really think defined shoulders look gorgeous in A-line halters and tops with a V string/line coming out of its center, but if they really bother you, there are some tips to make then look smaller:
http://www.insideoutstyleblog......lders.html
(this blog has an article about how to broaden your shoulders, you may look there to see what to avoid too)
About your body shape, from your mearurements I would expect your hips to look larger and that's not the case at all. Your chest and hips look well balanced. I still think you are primary a column, but with something of a neat-hourglass too.
In the link above there are sections about body shapes. I believe you may use above tips to make your shoulders look smaller along with I-shape tips to create a slender figure or you can show off/emphasize your shoulders and go for some V-shape tips to create a more X-like figure.
Note that you are not really an inverted triangle/V, but you can easily create the visual illusion of larger shoulders because their well defined shape, so you can use it to your advantage and get more outfit options