I appreciate all the thoughts and wishes.
Janet, you're so right when you say, "Proof that style is not frivolous." That really struck a chord, as did your comment about overwhelm and your mother's ring. It really does help to have a wearable talisman of sorts.
avicennia, I am truly sorry that you're going through that sort of experience, but I appreciate your simple acknowledgement that some crises don't abate quickly. And in this case, it's not so much something to get past, as something to live through.