Rachy, was he in prison?

I'm not on FB, but my dogs are.

Lol, JAileen! My cats are on FB.

This is a great conversation. I'm one of those very late Boomers (born Nov 1962) who always felt more GenX. I was a late holdout on texting (preferring email)--only gave in when my adult son refused to communicate any other way--but now it's basically the only way I communicate too. I'm not on Facebook because I used to be super paranoid about anything on the internet linked to my real name, but I have an instagram. What can I say? I enjoy posting pictures of my cat, things I eat or drink, nice hiking scenery, and the odd gym selfie.

As far as layoffs, I worked for one hospital for 26 years when I lost my job in a department merger. When you work for the same employer for 26 years, you're at the top of the pay scale, capisce? I tried self employment and a different line of work briefly, but after a whole adult worklife of having a steady paycheck and good benefits like stellar health insurance and plentiful PTO, I couldn't adjust to poverty and uncertainty in my 50s, LOL. So I'm back working for The Man at a different hospital with a hellacious commute and soul-sucking schedule. But I'm monetarily secure and this job isn't going anywhere. I've been pretty lucky, but choosing the right field in college was a big part.

My best friend from high school, OTOH, graduated with a journalism degree, ended up in tech writing, went through a bunch of layoffs and contract-only jobs over the years, including two very long periods of unemployment, and had to declare bankruptcy at one point. Now she works as an admin in a local school department for less than $20 an hour. She's 54, single, no kids, just barely scraping by, and with very little retirement savings. A college degree and a whole life trying to work hard and she has a scary future. Well, scary to me, anyway. It's a shame.

Btw... The next Survivor is Gen-X v. Millenials!

Lololol!

Born in 1974 instead of Gen X. We were known as the latch key kid generation. All about microwaves and MTV .

I don't like to lump myself in as a group. Having said that here is what I notice.

My parents generation. The baby boomers. As far as work goes were at there same jobs/careers 20+ years.

My neice and nephews generation leave jobs ever couple of years or when things get to hard.

On terms of social media. For myself F.B. Blogging and a bit if instagram is all I'm willing to do. Emails and phone conversation some texting is alright.

The younger generation has everything they use the phone but do not talk on it.

I love being 42 I think this is the very very sweet spot. I feel grown finally. I feel as if the life decisions I've made finally make are cohesive. I'm usally way behind the curve and th as t is okay I don't mind. For now I'm going to enjoy the sweet spot.