Your choices sound very good.
I'm working on this a lot more, including trying to identify some neutrals that work together that do not include black, white, navy or denim ! That's challenging! I still want to find good ways to pair grays with cool browns (my tree bark color palette!) and find more of the mixtures that I love, but these are harder to come by. Also, combining different grays is challenging and can be too dull for a total outfit.
After some experimentation and some aha moments, where it's leading me, I think, is to identify the non-neutral color that can function as a near-neutral.
I think this is going to be a form of cranberry-burgundy, medium depth but not too dark or it's light-sucking. It is both cool and warm, if that makes sense, and that's where I fit. Sure, it might also be fuchsia or deep pinks or similar colors that I like, but the slightly richer cranberry type color serves as a bridge.