Thank you so, so much to everyone who commented on this thread! Especially those who were not in love with it, thank you so much for giving your detailed explanations. It was really, really helpful.
I think all the Nay comments mentioned the cropped length, and I think I attribute that to crops traditionally being reserved for skirts and dresses. Most all the retailers have been styling the jacket with jeans, though, so I think maybe it could be a matter of adjusting the eyes. Although I must say I'd love to wear it half-zipped with a dress, too. In any case, it has very much helped me to see what works and what doesn't!
In the end, I think I will keep it! I noticed that those with the most similar styles to mine said to keep, so that helped me weigh the votes.
Thank you again for putting up with the long search!