Tara you look gorgeous! I love your hair. I like the color as is but I also feel you can play with the color for a change and to have a little fun. You are very lucky to have the cramy skin which let's you get away with experimenting with color. I do like it as is but it does seem safe if you know what I mean. One of your questions was if it is too red, I don't see any red in it and I think it would look great with some added. I love the blue mohawk or platinum Shirley Temple do suggestion! Ha!
My goodness your anniversary outfit is beautiful and fits so nicely. You and Sarah have great taste in choosing that top.
Happy anniversary to you and hubby.