I am much closer to Rachylou's thinking.
"I have been pondering Ralph Lauren’s philosophy of fashion... that it’s about the vision of a life and the clothes follow... maybe I’m just an 80s baby, but that seems right to me..."
My vision for the coming year started many months ago. Taking care of myself physically and mentally. That consists of losing weight, exercising regularly, healthy eating habits, taking time to breath, and most importantly, self-acceptance/love. The most beautiful clothes in the world can't hide a lack of selfconfidence.
Tomorrow, being the first of the year, I have an appointment to get my hair done. I haven't had a cut in almost a year, colored in probably close to 2 years. I'm getting a very short silver pixie with the main goal of maintaining it. There is something about the pixie cut that always makes me feel so.....I don't know......liberated and free?
Style/clothing goals:
1. Once I had kids, a husband, a home, pets......I put me aside and focused on solely on making sure they were taken care of. Now it's time for me again.
2. My style was and is an edgy boho. Over the last few years, I became worried about age appropriateness, trying to force myself into a more conservative box. It's like trying to stick a square peg into a round hole, it's never going to work. I need to embrace what feels natural and good to me. I need to be me, not try to model myself after a different middle aged woman on some blog.
3. Get up the courage to post WIW pics here.
I think my overall goal is to find my inner sparkle again, as mentioned in another thread. I used to have it, but lost it along the way.
ETA....Thanks for posting this thread. It really made me think.