Sending lots of positive vibes your way! As everyone has already said, taking care of yourself is #1 priority, whatever it takes I have very good friends who adopted a baby at similar ages to you and Tem and now have an active, healthy, and fun 14-year old boy....it all worked out very well...although the mom didn't start out exhausted from pregnancy like you will be LOL...take it easy and as Angie said one day at a time.