Deb - my ears are pierced but I haven't worn earrings in a long while, and in fact, decluttered ALL my earrings. The holes may have closed up by now since it's been so long. Also because my neck is short I never liked how long dangly earrings looked on me -- something off about the proportions?
For those who suggested pearls, I do like that idea and I have pearls. I don't have any rose gold jewelry.... I will see what I can find for an alternative statement necklace.
Zibbets - my nude heels are patent leather, so they will add shine. I think I agree with you that the black boots could work for a more informal event. Reality? I will likely wear boots to schlep to the event in the cold and snow, then switch into heels once I arrive. Thing is one of the events we go to each winter is in a venue that's cold and drafty, so if I can get away with wearing boots with socks, I like to do that! But I thought this dress, with the long sleeves and substantial velvet fabric, would at least keep me warm everywhere else so maybe I will be able to tolerate cold feet for a few hours....
Lisap - my existing clutch options are: 1) cream/white leather (it's got a touch of sparkle to it); 2) black with gold studs (I tried this first and liked it a lot... unfortunately the clutch is smaller than I like); 3) white crocodile box clutch (again it's smaller than I like). My leopard clutch bit the dust recently, but I'm not opposed to having an excuse to replace it. I'm also not opposed to finding a new clutch that's just for this dress.
I think it'd be great if I could come up with a way to style this dress for every-day / and not just formal. Do you think that's possible? I am seeing a lot of velvet dresses in the stores. Is velvet just for formal or is it every day now? Could I pair with say flat black leather boots for a more mod look? Or other shade of tall boot... ? Not sure I'd wear this dress to work, even if styled down... as my office is more smart casual. But perhaps to wear out on date night sometime?
