Kristine- can you get to a Nordsroms? They have a much better selection of better quality bras I noticed AND I think they are much more helpful. I ran into Macy's because I came home from Nordies with a bra that I changed my mind about and rather than make the drive back to N's I ran over to Macy's since I knew what I was looking for. I did find what I liked, but I had to get my clothes back on to come out and grab another size, and they didn't carry nearly the variety that Nordies did.
It does get confusing though after trying on a gazillion bras. If you do find some you like, I do suggest buying a few and making the final decision at home after you've had time to rest. That is what I realized after my last purchase. I had it narrowed down to 2... chose 1 and the next day realized that I wished I had gone with the other one. From now on I will follow the "buy twice as many as I want" rule.
Louise, Tanya and Inge... that is exactly what I picture... Maya walking up and down the hall of the dressing room being the official "bra inspector"