Been thinking about this all morning because it’s such a great question, Carla, and it’s been so interesting to read about all the approaches—color, shine, prints, patterns, juxtaposing, accessorizing, quirky accents, graphics, and unexpected elements.
And, yet, I’ve always loved to be in shaded neutrals, matte textures, and solids. I lean heavily towards a uniform of jeans and trousers worn with boots and a crew or polo neck sweater topped with a tailored jacket or coat. Unlike most fabbers, I could exist quite happily with a palette of nothing but black and white in my wardrobe. I’m also a minimalist when it comes to accessorizing and “quirky”/trendy/“must-have” items rarely last for more than a few months in my closet. Looking back on five decades of my fashion-following life, my experiments with almost all of the “fun” ideas suggested here have left me feeling like I’m wearing what others “expect”, not what makes me ME.
What makes an outfit “fun” for me is realizing how my “look” can be constantly morphing while all the while maintaining its inherent consistency. My risk-taking and experimenting isn’t about following others’ cues as much as it is refining, honing, and understanding my own quirky preferences and instinctive leanings. Wearing my brooches on my sleeve cuff instead of my lapels feels right as does gravitating to a stark black and white Fluevog boot when my friends wear ballet slippers and floral dresses. I guess what I’m trying to say is that, to me, being lighthearted about fashion isn’t about what I add to my wardrobe as much as it about giving rein to my own impulses and feelings.