Nemosmom, I bet those brown boots are sublime with your hair!
Like Jenna, I think "dated" is becoming a dated concept (I've mentioned that in many a blog post) - and especially with shoes and accessories. Clothing is a little more complex. YES - there are trends. But DYOT rules supreme, and trends are less and less relevant.
#1 - Fryes make an apocalyptic statement. Iconic.
#2 - Stick those under a midi or maxi skirt and you're in business! Very clean tailored fit - if the heels are manageable - which you mentioned you don't mind.
#3 - these I like the least because of the way they fit up top. Too tall and wide. Again, stick them under a midi and you hide the ill-fitting part
I know you don't wear skirts and dresses much....so THAT part you will need to ponder.....