Like many here, I can empathize! And I do love how the unexpected cut frames your face.
Right now I'm dealing with the unexpected results of what I TOTALLY ASKED FOR and my stylist delivered. I asked for the back to be shorter, because I couldn't handle the stage it had gotten to in trying to grow it just a few inches. Well, I'm thinking now, that was a mistake! I'm look at growing it to where it was, plus the extra I had been waiting for. And my hair, being wavy/curly, grows "out" (as in, springs up and out) an inch for every half inch it grows "down" in length.