Yes, I vote outfit 3 too.

YLF always. Be sure to wear your hair!

I still like the idea of pants outfit unless you have some kind of more relaxed dress. #3 is great (unless pedicure, as noted, or it's a spa that provides luxurious bathrobes). And unless you get the feel that all the others will be in dresses and you want to be the same. If you wore the cobalt dress, do you have some nude footwear or some that seem more daytime or more festive (not sparkly), less serious than black?

Love the white "suit" and the blue dress, with the white blazer also. May I suggest pairing the dress+blazer with the metallic peep to shoes in the "white suit"?

#1 then #3 if it is not too late.

The message from one of the others re wearing a dress to e is suggesting a dress code.

I love #4! And then #3.

Since I appear to be numerically challenged, will clarify--I'm trying to vote for the white pants outfit. Outfit 3, #4.

Any of these would do beautifully but I vote for the dress. You look stunning in it.

Thanks, ladies! I appreciate all comments and ideas.

I ended up wearing the white jeans, silk blouse and the white blazer for the first part of the day. Later on the weather became really balmy so I changed to the dress, but kept the black patent wedges all day. High heels were not the appropriate dress code, and we went to a private home for dinner where the floors would have taken a beating with stilettos.

Karie - a hen party is a bachelorette party http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bachelorette_party
Sometimes the entertainment is quite embarrassing and forces the bride to go way out of her comfort zone. She might be asked to do a number of stupid things while her friends cheers her on from the sideline. Other times the entertainment has a strong sexual undertone. The party I went to was nothing of the kind, but a warm, friendly and stylish affair.

Oh, OK - I figured something of the kind - I've never heard a bachelorette party called a hen party before!