Deborah - you look wonderful in all these looks!! Adore the new dress, very elegant. I also like the second very much too - covered but sexy and very cocktail. Since the wedding starts early, I would think above the knee would be the more expected length, I my vote is either of the first two dresses. The white jacket looks divine on you. Love it with crossed points and open it's like a tux jacket. I always wear a jacket. Does this jacket work over the new dress too with it's drape? So fab, can't decide. You have a really great dress/formal capsule to have so many options!! I do love the white jacket with the pearl earrings. And, of course, the red lips with the nails and pumps!! So totally chic!! Can't wait to hear what you pick!!