I'm so sorry you are having such a hard time finding something that will work for you, Angie. It's very tricky for sure. I'm trying to think of suggestions that haven't been mentioned yet, but am coming up empty...

You might try looking at the Website my dad the chemist. She is good at breaking down and giving information on ingredients

I also have very sensitive skin, with rosacea, and live in a very sunny climate. And I like going to the beach!
So I have different sunblock regimes for different situations, but the fundamental rule is apply moisturiser first, then apply a dedicated mineral sunblock. I find I’m more likely to react if I don’t have some sort of moisturiser buffering the sunscreen.
Everyday, I use Ocosmedics mineral tinted on my face and untinted on my neck. The tint is a reasonable but not perfect match to my skin tone, so I then apply Jane iredale mineral powder on top- matches my skin tone, and a bit of extra protection, but not reliable on its own.
At the beach, I use moisturiser, then a zinc base (Grahams sunblock for eczema prone skin), then surf mud. This is not elegant- I look like I’ve had bad fake tan applied- but effective against sun, salt and wind.
A friend of mine who also has very sensitive, fair skin eventually found that she could use max factor panstick foundation as an effective block.

Oh I’m sorry, and I can relate! My go-to that doesn’t cause me to react is this: https://www.amazon.com/gp/prod.....&th=1

It doesn’t have whatever chemicals in super goop and EltaMD that cause my skin to burn! And it works- I used it while in Hawaii for a week, and miraculously did not burn. It’s also creamy and moisturizing, a win for my 60 year old dry skin. Good luck on your quest!

I have sensitive skin, too. Every sunscreen I have tried, mineral and chemical, causes some reaction. Right now, my skin is flaking because of a sunscreen I tried. I prefer untinted, but I am desperate. I walk outside a lot.
Greenie, I have heard good things about Australian Gold. Maybe I will give that one a try.

Swear by Korean sunscreen. Most Japanese sunscreens have too much alcohol or are too greasy for my preference

I'm the same Angie ... It's so frustrating

Curious about the Korean sunscreens as I have heard great things. I find mineral sunscreens do the job when I am doing really sunny things (like swimming) but they look terrible ... Baby sunscreen is my best bet otherwise. But none are perfect unfortunately ... I just end up living with some redness during sunny months. I don't use sunscreen day to day for this reason and rely on hats a lot in summer.

I have no helpful info for you but hoping you get a solution soon! That sounds so frustrating and uncomfortable!

Thanks very much, everyone!

One way or another, I’m going to figure this out.

I like the Japanese watery liquid sunscreens from Biore. They don’t feel occlusive at all. You absolutely have to get the ones made in Japan as they have ingredients not available in US.— I came across the Biore when reading this article in NYT:

U.S. Sunscreen Is Stuck in the ’90s. Is This a Job for Congress?

For years, American consumers have had to look abroad if they want the latest in sunscreen innovations. Some, including Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, think it’s time to revisit F.D.A. approval procedures.

After months of prompting, I have finally managed to help my husband form a daily sunscreen habit. Whenever I see traces of paper white cream in his dark beard, I think, We’re halfway there.

Hoping to avoid the white cast, heaviness and greasiness common in many sunscreen products available in U.S. drugstores, some Americans, including Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez of New York, have taken matters into their own hands, opting for sunscreens manufactured abroad. In a recent interview, the congresswoman said she toggled between Bioré in the summer and Beauty of Joseon in the winter — two Asian brands that employ active ingredients not approved for use in the United States.

“The technology is very sophisticated,” Ms. Ocasio-Cortez said. “You don’t feel like you have a layer of sunscreen on, and it kind of just feels like you’re putting on a moisturizer in that sense, which makes it easier to use.”

While sunscreen is regulated as a cosmetic in major skin-care hubs like South Korea, Japan and the European Union, in the United States, it falls under the purview of the Food and Drug Administration. Any drug product marketed to American consumers must be approved by the F.D.A., and because sunscreen “makes a drug claim” — namely, that it can prevent sunburn, decrease the risk of skin cancer and mitigate early skin aging — the agency regulates it as an over-the-counter drug.

I FINALLY found a face sunscreen I can and will wear every day. It's from Hero. It says acne-prone skin, but my sensitive skin adores it. I usually put it on after moisturizer. It kept my fair skin untanned all summer, even if I didn't wear a hat.

All the other barrier sunscreens feel gross and heavy, so I don't put them on every day. Anything with chemical sunscreens is absolutely out for my face. And no fragrance!

Here's the info: Force
Shield Superlight Sunscreen SPF 30 from Hero Cosmetics - Everyday SPF
30 for Acne-Prone Skin with Zinc Oxide, Green Surge, and Extremolytes,
Fragrance Free and Reef Safe (50 ml)

Thanks so much for your thoughts!

Those who are recommending Japanese and Korean sunscreens, I'd love you to provide links to the products you've had success with - when you have a moment

Oh no, Angie! That's frustrating! Are you now reacting to the Vanicream sunscreen? I'm thinking yes. Darn!

FWIW, I also use the Ombrelle Kids sunscreen that Merwoman suggests. It doesn't seem to react with my skin like the other sunscreens.