I am wondering if any of you all have seen or have tried on this dress? I am tempted as the reviews are good, but am also suspicious of not being able to see the waist and also those box pleats and what they might do to my hips. I have sworn off "fit and flare" dresses for the time being (as I think I am too short, curvy and too short waisted), but think this might be an exception as the pleats are less "gathery".