Sorry I didn't answer your question sooner...
These are the products I use (not all together):
Aquage transforming paste - this one tends to be on the light side, flexible and not too heavy. It has little fibers that let you mold the shape without too much weigh down.
Redkin wax blast - this one is light because it is aerosol, but has some good ability to shape and hold without weight.
Redkin Rough Paste - heavier paste, but my hair likes it and I do sometimes layer this over the wax blast to get a more piece-y effect.
Redkin Rewind - I use this the least. It is similar to the Aquage, but even lighter. It has fibers in it too. When you rub your hands together, then clap over your head, it's like spider webs rain down. It is a bit too light and flexible for me.
Loma forming paste - nice smell, heavier than Aquage but not as much as rough paste. It is a nice mild paste.
And thank you for your sweet compliment.