Fashiontern, I am an old lady and would hesitate to wear any of these shoes. You may want to try a temporary hair color too ( I never thought I'd say that!) but older women competing with younger women do need every advantage. At least you probably will not get pregnant, a plus for your employer, and you do not have small children that may need you at home when they get sick. A bunch of older friends who spent a few days in Las Vegas said they were told that they would be hired immediately if they wanted a job because employers know that older people have the best work ethic and show up for the job. So you are a treasure and have lots to offer.

Fashintern, I'm truly sorry that you've been given a hard time by someone! How awful. I can see why that would make you take a break but wanted to reassure you that there ARE plenty of people here who will be glad to see you and help you, and will welcome you back when you are ready

All the best with the job search.

I hesitate to say this too, but I've been wondering the same thing as Joy - i.e., the temporary hair colour. But I'm not sure if that is helpful for Germany or not - I think it would be where I'm coming from.

I am very sad that someone has hurt your feelings and that seems most unpleasant of the person concerned. I enjoy interacting with you and am so impressed at the huge move you have made across the world. If you take a break, please come back to let us know about what job you end up with or if not please PM me! All the best x

Yes, please come back to the forum or at least PM!