San, thank you for understanding! Most women just don't get my aversion to cleavage, but I just don't think it looks good. I don't go out of my way to have people stare at my breasts. Isn't that what cleavage does?
I think there is also a big difference between a C cup and a G cup like myself showing cleavage. I hate to say it because it really isn't fair, but it's true: After a certain size, it looks cheap and desperate because there is just so much more of it, and at a size as large as mine, my chest already demands enough attention. Look at Pam Anderson and her FF's. Not a classy look.
Now, some cleavage is inevitable at large cup sizes regardless of whether one wears a cami, so no worries about that. I show cleavage all the time, but it is clearly unintentional...unlike here, where it isn't so clear.
I also mentioned that my bra is showing in this. Maybe no one can tell but it's quite obvious in real life. It just adds to the cheap look. I wish I could pass on my cleavage to all of you that want it! Life just isn't fair is it?
