I don't mind stores being a little more strict with their return policy. I know that Anthro has a shorter return window than they used to. Some smaller places have only a 14-day return window. And I think it's OK to require receipts and refuse to accept returns if the items appear to have been worn. They have to make money, after all.
But I do get angry if the store has a problem with my ordering two or three sizes of something because I'm not sure which will fit, especially when they make no effort to give measurements on their website. They should have extensive product measurements from the factories that made the clothes; I don't know why that can't be put on the product page. I know that that would save me much hassle in determining which size to order. This seems like common sense, yet few online retailers do it. Maybe I'm naive and customers wouldn't look at the information?
And I agree that knowing the model's height and size tells me squat. Not only that, but you still can't know whether they used clips to change the shape of the garment to fit the model's body shape, which pretty much makes it impossible to tell whether the garment will fit you, since you don't see an accurate rendition of the item.