You have absolutely made huge strides in the past year. The most dramatic changes come in your silhouettes and your hair -- both are amazing. You've also become a much more consistent dresser, with a distinct personal style.

I agree with the others --- allow polished to refer to your manners, and always keep a bit of edge and boldness in your classic!

I love the fluid tops on you, as well as structured jackets and shaped toppers with some visual weight (motos, for example). The elements that are trickiest are items that are squared off without structure (18/21) or not enough body in the more bodycon fabrics --- I think a heavier weight ponte dress would skim more than cling --- I know this first hand!

Ok, after coffee and I am back trying to figure this out. I think the problem may be that bold, modern, and graphic are accurate but not specific enough. I looked again at your outfits and noticed that the ones I particularly like have a certain proportion - with something going on at a point on your high hip that lengthens your (already long) leg line even with rolled up jeans. Out of your work outfits I prefer the ones with pants and I don't think it is because you can't wear skirts/dresses, I think it has to do with the length you are wearing. Do you have any pictures with dresses at knee length or longer? (You have great legs, that's not the issue.) Some ideas to play with (even rejecting ideas helps refine your own thoughts, right?):
Forward pointed. Does that mean anything? I think the skirt length, although classic and certainly not dated, is backward looking right now.
Classic proportions. Maybe the outfits you like and don't like relate to the golden ratio?
Bold contrasts. A lot of the bold comes from the color contrasts and I think it suits you well.
Elegant. Classic shapes and proportions to rein in the bold contrasts. Nothing jarring. Whatever that means!
Thanks for letting me analyze you Elizabeth - I have been trying to figure myself out too and this is really helpful!