Angie - Disappointment on the sweater front! Style quotient was low at my exchange too. Although the hostess spoke to a guest after I'd left and the other guest mentioned me as the "chic" one with the stylish haircut. (The hostess called me last night to report this news.) So at least style was appreciated, if not put into practice
The quotient that was quite impressive at the cookie exchange was the number of high-achieving women present. The hostess is a Northwestern business school grad and she has very lovely and impressive friends. VPs of marketing at big companies, for example. Another woman I spoke with has an economist husband at U of C and they're moving to Washington to work for Obama. That sort of thing. For little writer me, it is fun to see how the other half lives! I loved it!