I almost always have to wear a petite top. I am 5'2" and short waisted. Out of 20 items I try on of misses' clothing, probably only 1 will fit me properly. And even then, the fit is just OK and not anything to write home about. When I look at the picture of the model online wearing the item, I can see that I look very ordinary due to the extra length that kind of just hangs there. And embroidered details hit all at the wrong spots, making the shirt look dumpy.
I just finished returning over $1000 of online purchases in misses' XS clothing because the tops were too long and the waists too low. (The waists hit me almost at my hips, and I have hourglass hips, so it looks terrible.) I ordered the misses' clothing because I was looking for some boho clothing, and there is not much boho-style clothing out there in petite sizes. I did find some maxi skirts that weren't overwhelming on my figure, but these will have to be taken up, as they are so long that I will trip on them.
As another poster commented, however, at least we have various lengths in jeans now! When I was a kid, my mom too had to hem up my jeans. Clothes shopping was an absolute nightmare with my little waist, big hips, and short stature. Both of us dreaded it. Now I find that the short inseam (usually around 30") fits me fine. And with the current trend of ankle pants, I can buy the ankle pants for average-height people and have them at the perfect length for me.
It's also frustrating when people say, "Just take it to a tailor." Not everything can be altered! I have a pretty good eye for what will be an easy alteration and what will be a headache, risky, or impossible. And it's just not practical to have to add in at least $20 per piece of clothing for alterations. That adds up fast.
Ruth, I too have noticed that the petite sections of B&M stores have clothes that are matronly and frumpy. It's like the store managers think that petites have absolutely no interest in being fashionable! That is why I have gone back to shopping online. It is not uncommon for me to order 10-15 items of clothes and keep only a couple of them. And it is frustrating to see people post such cute outfits on the forum and know that I can't duplicate any of their outfit components because the sizing will not work on me, no matter how small the sizes go. The proportions are just all wrong.
Thanks for letting us rant.