So, my follow up question, then, Chris -- are you happy dressing that way at home? Does it make you feel good?
I ask because my "WFH" is really work AT home, i.e. I'm rarely engaging in meetings (even Zoom meetings) and mostly sitting in a chair reading and writing and corresponding, then doing household tasks, vacuuming, prepping food, gardening, even shovelling. I go days on end without seeing anyone except Mr. Suz, my kid, and our cat. My lifestyle to most people would look like that of a retired person in the months I'm not classroom teaching. And I'm not classroom teaching now.
I don't dress to the level Angie would for this lifestyle. (She'd wear her gorgeous suits, I'm betting!) I might dress closer to that level if I lived in a more urban environment (I did, when I lived in Vancouver). But in my suburban mileau, it wouldn't make much sense -- I need more rugged boots for my walk, etc.
Even so, I wear the type and quality of clothes I would wear if I were going out. With some minor modifications, e.g. I'm unlikely to wear a blazer at home, unlikely to wear my dressier booties (and have at-home shoes for the house instead). I vary the coats -- if I'm walking here in the suburb, it's almost always my puffer, whereas if I go into town I will wear a wool coat. I sometimes add more accessories if going out. And of course if I am doing a truly dirty job (maybe gardening) I wear tougher items, often gear.
Anyway. That's my reason for counting at-home wears. My at-home life IS my life, pretty much, and I'm dressing for it! Why wouldn't those wears count?
To me it makes sense to count those wears for a few reasons.
1. Because I wear my clothes most here -- this is the stuff that is more likely to wear out!
2. I really want to feel good every day. Sure, on the occasional day I wear gear nonstop (usually if I have two outdoor adventures planned and don't feel like changing. But mostly I want to feel like myself, not less than myself. Yeah, my "uniform" is jeans and a sweater, most of the time. This used to frustrate me, but it is what it is -- this is my fall back style. But it can be a nicer sweater (with an apron) and the jeans I really like, not the ones I don't care for any more.
3. Because it gives me a clearer sense of what I actually need. (I need clothes that I feel good in when I'm working from home.
I want lots of "going out" clothes but, to your point, I don't, need a lot of variety there. I have certain repeated activities, e.g. lunch with friends, appointments, launches -- and need a few different options for each of those in various weather conditions, but I don't need a huge number of items.) I constantly remind myself that my needs are for items that work -- or also work -- at home.)
Phew. Sorry. This got long. Maybe it should be a new thread about under what circumstances people count. Sorry if I derailed. I hope at any rate it is food for thought. I will say that speaking for myself, I could not feel good about my style if I didn't consider what I wear at home to be an integral part of it. And I would get depressed over time if I didn't dress in the nicest way that is practicable for myself at home.