Oh my goodness, thank you all so much for all the wonderful compliments and for confirming my choice. I can't tell you how grateful I am for your help.
The dress is hanging in the closet and I returned approximately $1000 worth of other dresses today, yay!
Velvety Chocolate- you are so sweet your post made me laugh, smile and cry all at once. Thank you from the bottom of my heart . You almost sound as if you know me, I promise not to second guess the dress! The search is over! Promise.