I hear you on not wanting to keep everything in my closet paired up with just one partner. I gravitate towards patterns and certain colors instinctively; when I pick up a funky cape or a new skirt on a whim, I don’t worry much about the colors, because what appeals to me has been consistent for decades. I never really examined colors in my closet until I started at YLF, but when I did, I found strong patterns that lend themselves to sartorial polyandry.
I like blue dresses! My two-piece blue-and white dress that I included in a post a few weeks ago was purchased at least 16 years ago, or maybe when I lived in Austin in the early 90s. I have a blue sheath that I wore to a friend’s wedding right after college. And I still find that when I’m undecided about a dress in a store, seeing it in blue can completely sway me. I’m a total sucker.
Accent colors for me are fire-engine (not orangey) red and true greens.
My preference for berry shades came from looking at what I had and learning about tonal matching as a sophisticated way of dressing.
When I want to rebel, I often go pink. Fortunately, those shades work well with the berries and other colors in my wardrobe.
I find that all of the above colors can be mixed together without restraint; it’s hard to find anything in my closet that clashes with anything else.
I don’t have a lot of monochromatic neutral pieces. Light neutrals and browns don’t work for me tonally matched; I look sluggish in those outfits. When I wear monochromatic neutral pieces, their function is generally to calm things down/prevent the colors and patterns from being overwhelming.
Colors don’t play any role in managing/storing my wardrobe. I could organize everything (including outerwear, swimwear, workout clothes, undies, and even furnishings/decor) in color capsules, but the one month I did that was very confusing. When I’m getting dressed, I want to cover various body parts and maybe add extra warmth. No matter how well they match, 3 toppers don’t make an outfit, lol. It works best for me to store things functionally—tops divided by sleeves, sweaters separated into T-necks, cardis, and pullovers, etc. I can’t see that at a glance the way I can color, so it helps to have things pulled apart like that.
The realization that I have such strong color themes is kinda par for the course for me—I tend to come at things from the other direction of most people. What I’d like to do now is diversify the shapes in my wardrobe. I’ve spoken before on how finding out about warm tights & boots worn with dresses was an absolute revalation to me in Berlin 25 years ago. I still love that sillouhette. I’m starting to be less reactive to the straight leg pants and simple pullover outfits that featured so strongly in my Midwestern upbringing in winter. Most of the items on my wish list are toppers, in various shapes & lengths, to change up my profile, while sticking with the colors I’ve always known and loved.
ETA: sorry that got so long!