I will say my VW - I've 200K+ on it, and have only had to do routine parts replacement (after the first month, when the starter died straight off the bat while I was on a country road and the VW service that came with the car, the folks had no idea how to find me on a country road - I was very lucky my mum was with me and had Triple A).
BUT I serviced the car faithfully every quarter up until last year. By all reports, you don't do this, and the engine falls out of the car. I did nothing for my Hondas. Nothing. Maybe an oil change once a year. They all ran beautifully forever, and I never once sold a Honda because it was starting to go. Also, my Passat is premium gas only, which is demoralising at the pump.
On the third hand, the VW has torque. Hondas, by design, do not focus on delivering torque.
You may ask why I have a VW Passat: An ex-boss made me. He said I was cramping his style, and he was very serious about it. The VW was a compromise, because I can only go so flash in a car.