I hear you, Shannon! Just yesterday, I told my mom that my Birk knock offs (wonderful silver White Mountains from DSW) would have to be discarded. I wore them quite a bit this week on vacation, as I did last year on my western trip. They are clearly problematic. The latent PF that I struggle with resurfaced in days, even though I changed into other shoes for my hikes. I noticed that I have to keep my toes flexed up and out to keep them on, even with my wide, high volume foot. By contrast, I could wear my Crocs, with no arch support at all, with perfect comfort.
We'll help you keep finding cute shoes that make the feet happy! Do you following the "Barking Dogs" website?