Okay, so some of my former faves have been discontinued & are no longer available online, but here are my current standbys:
My favorite daily bra. Perfect shape and support, and *almost* a tee shirt bra in terms of how little the seams show under a medium-gauge knit top or dress. http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/ch.....n=category
It's expensive, but occasionally certain colors go on sale, and last summer this bra was part of the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale. It's worth scoping out.
Another daily bra that I like. http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/fr.....ra/3030207
The Chantelle model is a slightly better fit for me, and the Freya bra only has a double hook-and-eye closure compared to the Chantelle's triple hook-and eye, so that's a factor to consider. However, the Freya bra is much less expensive.
My current favorite sports bra. Utterly perfect for cardio and fits me *much* better than any athletic bra I've tried before. http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/fr.....n=category
I can't wear this because it doesn't come in a large enough cup size, but my mom is pretty close to your size and I think that this is the bra she wears every day. http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/wa.....n=category