Wow, more great thoughts! Thanks so much! I was going to log on and hide all the pics, but maybe I will let them stand for a bit more, for "educational" purposes :).
Thanks, Una. Your comments are therapeutic!
Scarlet, I appreciate you weighing in about the lining. I do think a natural lining tends to go along with a higher price, so I have to mull that over (i.e., do I want to search for and spend a lot on a leather jacket?).
Denise, I appreciate your comments--no need to apologize!! I agree if my chest were smaller, it would look more uniformly boxy and perhaps be more of a look that I could go for. Maybe since I'm not flat-chested I need to look for one that's longer and has some seaming to it.
Laura, thanks for your thoughts about wearing one as outerwear. I do think we have different internal thermostats--I would never wear a leather jacket in 60 degree temps! Too hot! I can wear a medium-weight jacket (like leather or medium-weight wool without a thick lining) when it's mid-30s up to mid-50s, depending on if it's windy, sunny, etc. so I think I would be able to get some use out of it as outerwear.
Thanks, Glory, for weighing in.
April, yes, I see what you are saying. I do like the edge that leather can bring, especially when I see it on others :).
Thanks, MTB. I'm glad this process has been useful to you! Thanks for chiming in!
ETA: Thanks for your comments, Rae! You are on the mark, I think. I am definitely returning it (no more ambivalence). I do like the biker thing (goes with my love of rugged & androgyny) but I typically wear things like this more for non-work days, which I don't post as often on YLF, so maybe you don't think of that vibe as me? I probably wouldn't get a straightforward black biker jacket, but the color of this one and how it seemed sort of refined (somewhat understated zippers, if that's possible!) drew me to it. I agree with you on the fit--it's just off a bit. Thanks for your detailed analysis!