Oh yeah, the boob segmentation thing is a problem. :-/

Crossbody bags are not a great everyday solution for me, as I have been making efforts to take strain off my shoulders. I simply have been carrying my bags by hand as much as possible. I've taken the removable long shoulder straps off of my handbags that have them so I'm not tempted to sling the on my shoulder.

On the days I do use a crossbody, I try to keep it as light as possible.

Now if only my camera could lose about 5 lbs...

I don't think they're easier on your shoulders. The other day my bag was really loaded and started to hurt my shoulder and neck. Usually I try to travel light but I think I had a water bottle in there too. But I like crossbody best because I feel more secure and like to be hands free when I'm out and about.