The year is coming to an end, and I’ve done my annual closet review (and DH’s as well). There’s still some $ in the clothing budget for winter accessories and a winter dress coat, but I’m pretty much done clothes shopping for 2021.


After struggling with online shopping in 2020 and early 2021 (during which I returned some items, but also kept some items I probably shouldn’t have) I developed strategies to protect myself from ‘mistakes’ - but which in turn might be sabotaging my style!

I live in a small community and shopping choices are restricted. I shop Marks Work Wearhouse (Levi jeans, t-shirts, Converse sneakers), Winners (not much this year), two small indi boutiques (footwear and accessories), and 3 thrift shops (pants and sweaters). I’m duplicating what works/sticking with brands and styles that have a history of working for me - especially if ordering online.

Between stress weight loss, and no gym/weight training (loss of muscle mass) I’ve had to rebuild my pants collection and I’ve been sizing down in all new tops, toppers, and coats since F/W 2020. During this year’s closet review, DH suggested that a few older tops and toppers looked a little ‘sloppy’ (vs fluid or fashionably oversized) so they are gone. I regret the wardrobe churn, but I believe in dressing the body I have now.


I’m comfortable with some degree of uniform - but going the ‘safe’ route of duplicating a limited number of fairly conventional styles and silhouettes can feel a little, well, boring! Mood-wise, I feel like the character Joe Btfspik (from Lil’ Abner) - and it’s affected the colour palette of my wardrobe. I’m drawn to somber colours I identify as Victorian mourning colours. I have managed to balance the trend with some white and cream items, but I just can’t seem to ‘connect’ with bright colours this year!

In conclusion, I’ve turned over a portion of my wardrobe, settling for what feels safe, and protective, and I’m feeling flat and like I’ve lost my fashion mojo!

I figure a couple of months to reflect on a style statement for 2022 and find a focus are in order…

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