*APPLAUSE*
I love how these AHA-moments have led to a brilliant plan that simply put - pander to a more authentic CHRIS-style because you are listening to your feelings and following through on them positively and constructively.
Well done
Also, sooooo with you that colour - whether it's a neutral or non-neutral - is the most important part about an item. If the colour is wrong, it's a non-starter for me. The fabric, fit, and everything else about it do not matter.