You are all wise woman.
We cannot help our "poison eyes" - I have them too - but keeping them to a minimum is a good goal to strive for. Style is art. Art is subjective and evolving. There is no right and wrong. There are guidelines and preferences. That's all.
Gradfashionista, I was prompted by Suz, Eliza, Aliona and Diane in the comments section of this morning's post. Although today's ensemble is polar opposite to their own personal styles, they can appreciate the look on others. I LOVE this attitude, and want to shout it from the rooftops.