Lisa!!! How fun to see your WIW this morning!
First things first. You are gorgeous. Your hair! Your style! That top: OMG -- LOVE.
Second. Photos get easier, they really do. (I was notoriously anti-photo, to the point DDs used to worry about me -- seriously, it was my only negative body-image issue -- and now, thanks to YLF and lots of picture posting, I am much more relaxed about it.) Use a tripod or take pics of yourself until DH gets it, and he just might, after a while.
Third, if you are over the Fly Londons (which I actually think are adorable) let them go, no matter how comfy they are. But it does seem like you might have some very happy takers at YLF!
Fourth, Deborah is so smart about the cross-body! I wear mine in front, which is probably why it works better. But also, I have barely any breasts at all. Probably also a factor.
Please don't shy away from WIWs. It's so great to see you.
xx