But my (only) Sister had a major medical crisis, right after I wrote, and I was at the hospital most of the time.... she was released Friday, had a relapse Sunday, back to the ER. She is home now, still not right. At the same time I found out my (only 1 ) kidney 'impairment ' (function about 30%) has been downgraded to 'kidney failure' and I'm waiting to see what stage # it is. The numbers suggest 3-4 , 4 meaning I need to start Dialysis, if its worse #5, it means nothing short of a transplant will help, and it could mean 'get your affairs in order' ie, Bye-Bye I am seeing my regular Dr Thursday, and cant get in to the Nephrologist till 7/8 (because I'm not confirmed to be in 'immediate need' Thank you all SOOO very much for all the kindness, good thoughts and comfort you've shown me, both now, and in the past. Love you all....