I'm going with Juxtaposition and Shopping For Your Real Life...
(2 I know, sorry! LOL)
It made all the difference in the world to me to learn as a lifetime classic dresser that with juxtaposition I could add a trend to my outfit and feel great! I thought trends were out for me, since I liked button downs and classic cuts. It took me out of mundane, and into the FUN with fashion category!
And shopping for my real life? Well, that one has resulted in very targeted shopping, lots of "No's" to lots of pretty (but useless to me) things, and a much happier wardrobe and wallet! I don't have any orphans anymore in my closet, I can put together an outfit for any occasion in my life, and the bulk of my wardrobe is my everyday wear, (not my Ladies Who Lunch version...LOL)
Thank you ladies, and especially thank you Angie!