Conclusion. I've been working on adding a little polish to my look, and I'm going to go back to making sure I have a little arty in it also. I can add some polish, but I can't imagine ever being Team Polish. Judging by how I feel comfortable and what type of clothing looks good on me.
All of this has helped me have a clearer understanding of something I've experienced more on an emotional level. I've been intimidated by people who are more polished, and often, more successful. At least in traditional areas. I.T. seems to have it's own rules.
Do you think Team Polish people are generally more reserved/proper?
And Team RATE usually more relaxed?
How much of this is hereditary/environment? Are there more of one type of people in certain areas of the US?
One of my friend's mother was definitely Team Polish. I haven't seen as much of her as an adult, but I don't think my friend is. Her dad wasn't. My mom definitely isn't. She rebelled against it.
I think now I will see some of the people I felt intimidated by more as different from me in their strengths/choices, rather than better.
Thanks everyone!