A friend of mine is getting married this Friday at the the Hans Fahden Winery and I've been so caught up with work that I have yet to buy her wedding present...or decide on a dress to wear!
Buying a new dress is not really an option and the bride is being most unhelpful with wardrobe decisions at the moment so I turn to you all for help- which of the three below (if any) do you think is the most appropriate? (The wedding colors are black, white and gold and i know other guests are wearing anything from body hugging gold ruched dresses to tasteful black cocktail/summery dresses)

(Sorry in advance for the crap pictures....I'm sick and don't have the best mirror set-up)

Black/white strapless (would get a wrap to go with this)
http://smg.photobucket.com/alb.....2499-1.jpg

Dark brown/White with Teal Hems
http://smg.photobucket.com/alb.....02-1-2.jpg

Red/Black Halter neck (worried this is a bit too low, even with a wrap?)
http://smg.photobucket.com/alb.....2500-1.jpg

the back of the red dress:
http://smg.photobucket.com/alb.....2501-1.jpg

Thanks for any and all advice!