Hi Astrid --
Rachylou made me laugh so much but she did pretty much nail it.
It's weird because I love that style coat (hi, ethical version of the J Crew Lady Day), and grey, and tweed/texture but...because of the fit being too big + color + fabric it gave you a very waif-y/androgynous vibe and I thought you were looking to up the femininity right now.
[That's a lot more boring than Rachy's summation, ha!]
Good luck with the new order!