Thanks everyone.
I headed for my local Country target this morning ( the dresses in the picture were from a city Target) as they had a sale and lo and behold they had none of the black dresses at all and none of the one everyone liked in my size or even close to it.
However since I keep rejecting things that actually end up having YLF approval I have bought 2 further dresses, and some black pinstripe shorts and will await your comments when I manage to upload the pics. Since I bought them locally I will be able to return those. I think I will just have to start buying things and returning them (as discussed in Angie's blog).
Shopping with my 21 mo daughter was a disaster. She wiggles several times under the door of the changing rooms and I had to dash after her once into the passageway in my bra and knickers! Then she ran off halfway across the ship while I was at the cash register. No more shopping with DD3!!