Sigh.
Back in the days when I never bought myself clothes, I had a kind girlfriend who was just trying to get me to buy something pretty. Anything!!
I had no clue about my style at the time.
It never failed. Out shopping with her, I would buy things that:
- Felt way too expensive for me. (This friend is much wealthier than I am.)
- Felt way too "feminine" and "frilly" for me. (This friend would always compliment how I looked in them.)
- Were not practical for my lifestyle or climate.
My solution was to move across the country so I would never go shopping with this friend again!
In all seriousness, sometimes you just have to stick to stores that have great return policies. Because it's easy to get caught up in the excitement.
I do think that as you become more and more clear in your style, it will be easier for you to say, "Yup. You're right. It DOES look good on me. But it's not my style." Or, "It just doesn't fit my aspirational style."
Silly question: Does your friend have a different body type/ colouring from yours?
I ask because my bad-shopping-buddy's body type and colouring are much different from mine. I think part of her excitement about items I would try on came simply from the fact that they looked so different on me than on her. Not necessarily better, you understand. Although she often believe that, it wasn't true.