I got the Paul Green booties and really like them. They fit just like my other Paul Green booties and shoes. I like the gray color, which will go nicely with charcoal and black. The heel is a little high, but very comfortable and stable feeling; I love how easy it is to wear Paul Green heels. They just work for me. I also like the dip in the front--I think it's flattering on my leg. That said, I also ordered the Aquatalia booties that Thistle shows above, in the mushroom color, thinking that I would choose between those and the Paul Greens. I'm guessing that I won't part with the Paul Greens, though, even if I like the Aquatalias.
I like the dresses you've chosen and could see you in any of them, but especially the Eliza J, for both the style and the color.
I really like that burnout sweater, too, though I will second Kari's comment on the lightness of it. I tried it on in aqua but couldn't figure out how or when I would actually wear it. For me it seemed too light for a sweater but too much of a sweater to serve as a summer top. It's really pretty, though, so I like your idea of wearing it for a kind of special-occasion sweater. It will be lovely with a cami, and you could change the look with different colors under it.
On the delivery problem: Nordstrom uses UPS, so you could sign up for their "my choice" or whatever they call it, and specify the nearest UPS store as your delivery location. You can always change it back to your home later.