but he never used to. We are the same height, but when I wear heels I am significantly taller than him. He never acted liked this bothered him until recently. I didn't wear them as often when we were dating. The older I get the more I want to wear them. I think that's just because I finally feel comfortable enough with myself to stand out. Anybody else have this issue? Did you or will you stop wearing them if your husband/partner is feeling a bit insecure about it?