I got a lot of great suggestions when I asked about cardigans last week and ended up ordering two that seemed especially promising. Left to my own devices, I sometimes tend to settle for "good enough," so I thought I'd see what the collective fashion wisdom here has to say.

The first (#1-#4) is the Everlane cashmere cardi in burgundy. Overall, I really love it! Beautiful burgundy color with a little bit of heather to make it look richer and more vibrant. Boyfriend shape, which I'm a big fan of. The cashmere itself is light enough not to be bulky, heavy enough to seem warm, and so soft that I just want to keep stroking it.

But (and why is there always a but?), I'm wondering if it might be too big. The sleeves are long, but I'm used to that and don't mind rolling them up. But does it look too big in the shoulders and body? This is a S, so I can try exchanging for an XS. I'd rather keep this one than have to deal with returning/exchanging by mail and don't mind something a little oversized, but I also don't want something that's obviously too big.

The second (#5-#6) is the J. Crew merino Tippi cardigan in "heather oak," which is one of those light neutrals I can never figure out how to describe. I'm a little undecided on this one. On one hand, I like the fit, the quality, the heather tones of the shade, and the fact that I could probably wear it comfortably for most of the year. On the other, I'm not sure this neutral kind-of-my-skintone-but-not-quite shade needs to be right near my face like this and, combined with the more retro, ladylike crewneck shape of this cardi, I fear it might be slightly granny-esque. What do you think? For this one, I'm not sure whether to keep, return, or exchange for another color. There don't seem to be many other colors online in my size (S here too), but there might be in store, especially once post-Christmas returns come in. The dark green shade might be nice for me, maybe?

Thanks so much for any feedback you have! And honesty is definitely appreciated!

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