Okay, more jacket pics on the way soon. I visited another H&M, which had a few more options in stock. Still pretty sure that none are my magical avant-garde jacket, but at least a couple of them are fun options to keep me sane until the perfect one shows up.
@Anna, thanks so much for the links! Super fun. First two are too long for me. I notice that I feel really good in and really like shorter, hip length jackets. I'm not super tall. Also, I was lovin' the glam rock gold bomber, even if it wasn't for me. I'm a Bowie girl, but that's bolder than I am! You totally rock the gold. I'm not so bold and fun, even if I secretly want to be. Also, the Neiman Marcus/Haider Ackerman jacket you linked me to earlier arrived yesterday. Too darned small. Sadness. Also, oddly, I thought it had a leather second piece to it, but when it showed up it was basically a jacket with the bottom half cut off, raw edge on the bottom seam, but finished edge on the lining, so intentional, but not what I expected. Sheesh! Look at how much help you've given me! You are fabulous!
@Una, it's out there. I want to believe....
Thanks all for the ideas everyone--keep 'em coming!